Were dating red flags good signs

Then, when he has no purpose left for you, he just throws you away. You’re so much worse off than when you first started dating. Something that will give you the strength to pick up the pieces of your shattered psyche and lost soul.

This is another narcissistic trait: the belief that only his or her feelings and opinions are valid, and that differences pose a threat. The person talks on and on about himself or herself and doesn't ask much about you, or is uninterested when you do talk about yourself. This person is not interested in you or your feelings.

Over the many years of working with thousands of people looking to find a committed relationship, I've discovered numerous red flags that may indicate future problems.

Very often, when the person I'm working with has moved ahead with the relationship, one of these issues -- which might not have seemed huge at the beginning -- becomes a major problem leading to the demise of the relationship. As you read this list, don't just focus on the other person.

Red Flag Rule #12: If a guy can pick up a phone and send you a text, surely he can use the same phone and call you with it.

Red Flag Rule #17: If he mashes up your lady parts like he's kneading pizza dough, tell him to lighten up before you're too swollen to cross your legs.