Unlike most of the lookie-loos who read free blogs and newsletters and don’t try anything different, you put your money where your mouth is and invested in Finding the One Online. However, there are a few variables that might be affecting your experience…and I’d just like to point them out to you. In this famous Ok Cupid blog post, Ok Cupid takes great pains to illustrate that while women think that 80% of men are BELOW AVERAGE in attractiveness, men actually have a fair appraisal of women’s attractiveness.And now you want to know when the payoff is going to come. Since I don’t know you at all, I’m just going to be objective and theorize why you might not be doing as well as you’d like. And while they still write disproportionately to the best looking 33% of women, normal women still get plenty of attention online.The fact that you’re willing to improve yourself and learn how to become a better man is commendable and advisable, especially if you lack experience with women.
I am a 36-year-old East Indian woman living in New York City. This is incredibly frustrating, especially after I checked your blog and saw that in a question you asked about response rate, ALL these women said that they got at least 50-60% response rate.
I would say that less than 10% of the people I write to write back to me. I write to all kinds of men who are both younger and older, of all races,single and divorced, etc, etc.
and I’ve been very, very careful to use all of your tips, and I read your blog faithfully. I feel like I’m the ONE outlier who can’t make your tips work for me.
Your website seems like the perfect place to garner advice, as I am newly single and have been dating men in this age range.
As I live in a smallish town without many prospects, I've turned to online dating.