I spent a lot of time trying to make myself LOOK better to women (e.g.
buying clothes, going to tanning salons, getting the latest haircuts, etc), but it didn’t work.
Is it easy to do, dating two people at the same time?
The first girl, he said, was “a little too tall,” and the second girl was “a little too short.” Then he met my mom. Let’s look at how I do things, maybe with a slightly less important decision, like the time I had to pick where to eat dinner in Seattle when I was on tour last year.
He quickly deduced that she was the appropriate height (finally! First I texted four friends who travel and eat out a lot and whose judgment I trust. Finally I made my selection: Il Corvo, an Italian place that sounded amazing. (It only served lunch.) At that point I had run out of time because I had a show to do, so I ended up making a peanut-butter-and-banana sandwich on the bus.
Dating more than one person at a time may sound a little overwhelming, but it’s actually one of the best ways to find the right match for you.
When you date only one person, it’s easy to get emotionally attached quickly.