My friend P (and no, her real name is not just a letter but if you're friends with P, then you're friends with me) put it best."Assume people are sleeping with other people unless they ask or say otherwise," she says. You're not hanging all your hopes on this coffee right now either? As P puts it, "Don't feel guilty about seeing more than one person, because you can make it weird, and don't overshare about more than one person." If they ask you what you're doing on Saturday, tell them you are "busy." If they ask what you're doing, tell them you're "meeting up with a friend." If they ask which friend, defer, or lie.Dating is really just a string of dicey etiquette questions, but how do you talk to the person you're dating about the other people you're dating? With online dating becoming more and more popular, it's only going to become increasingly common to see these questions come up, and, honestly, they should! What do I say to a partner when things are starting to get more serious with that other person?You need someone with whom you can reveal your authentic self, not just a piece of you—and you are the only one who can bring that full you to the table.I am so glad someone is finally blowing all the horseshit out there in the dating world out of the water.
I’d spent all my time up until that point in exclusive, monogamous relationships and thought that was the way to go.As neediness is one of the biggest relationships killers, this is a HUGE plus.The fastest way to kill any potential relationship is to take all the tension out of it.Seeing the other side of the coin showed me that letting the girls you’re dating see other guys was not only OK, but actually had a lot of benefits.There are too many to cover here, but here are the 4 top reasons why you MUST encourage the girls you’re dating to see other guys: Allowing her to see other guys gives you the space to see other girls.