of emails when they use online dating.”Lots” doesn’t tell me any darn thing though. I needed to turn this “Lots” into something I could understand. Ok not really But dammit, I do make a sexy girl don’t I?! This is what I really did: Me and the e Dating Pin-up picked out some of her sexy photos and created a few profiles on the different dating sites. How can you survive online dating in this apocalypse? We toned it down and went for cute this time I set the Zombie Bait then checked it 4 hours later… This time I wanted to see the Zombies in action and how long it took them to strike. The Zombies should be at work so I thought it would take a while… Same mistakes, over and over and over and over and OVER and O-V-E-R!!!!
Ohh-yeah– Time for an experiment and you know how the e Dating Doc loooves experiments! I dressed up like a girl, took some photos & joined ok Cupid. I wanted to see what would happen if we used some of the e Dating Pin-up’s photos that were not smokin’ hot. And this was to cute photos NOT bangin’ hot photos. I saw them start to pile in: In 4 minutes & 14 seconds this is how many emails the e Dating Pin-up got: 18 emails in 4 minutes on a Monday at noon. Because 99.9999% of those messages were mindless Their photos were mind-numbing Zombie Group Photo – Their written profiles STINK!
In fact, looking away from the camera as if something interesting just caught your eye will drive her wild with intrigue. You’d be surprised by how many men send out messages to women they find attractive without actually reading their profiles.
Not sending a personalized message greatly reduces your chance of a response with the hot girl online.
I thought that women felt attracted to men for the same reasons that we feel attracted to women. I didn’t realize that it was possible to make beautiful women feel attracted to me for reasons OTHER than looks, so if they rejected me, I simply assumed, That’s all I knew because I was another brainwashed modern man who believed the junk I saw in TV and magazine advertisements.
Some women will only ever accept a perfect looking male model with loads of money and huge penis, but the majority of women have what I call an Open Type, which means that she is open to being with all different types of guys, as long as the guy can make her feel enough attraction in other ways.
Some of the many ways that you can attract women are with your confidence, charisma, charm, humor and masculine vibe. Before I discovered what I now teach here at The Modern Man, I was going through life assuming that beautiful women couldn’t like me because I wasn’t good looking enough. When I interacted with beautiful women, NOTHING that I was saying and doing was making them feel any attraction because all I was doing was talking to them in a nice, friendly way and expecting to be LIKED for it.
Back then, I assumed she was reaching out because I write an advice column (Love Letters) and figured she wanted to pitch a story about her dating service.
But then I realized her notes seemed unduly interested in my marital status.“So you are supposed to be BEYOND AWESOME and SINGLE? Advertisement I inferred that she wanted to set me up. Thursday morning, though, after I read the Post story, I gave Janis a call to find out what she thought of the article, which by midmorning was drawing a lot of attention and backlash.