Early attraction often involves the physical attributes of the partner and include things like outward appearance, body type, interests and personality traits.At this stage, the attraction may not be too “deep” and each half of a couple is generally putting his or her best foot forward.Stage 1: Initial Meeting/Attraction Dating relationships have to start somewhere.The initial meeting may take place over the internet, through friends, in a church or social group, at a party or bar or any one of a myriad of many different places.Different arenas for meeting allow for different opportunities to get to know each other and see if there is enough curiosity or interest to take it to the next level which would involve arranging a second or third meeting.Stage 2: Curiosity, Interest, and Infatuation During the second stage, attraction and infatuation are most pronounced.Believe me, a threesome is not as great as it sounds!
They say advice is what you ask for when you already know the answer, but wish you didn’t, and I most certainly agree!
Then again, my entire relationship history is available in paperback, so what do I know about discretion?
Before giving advice, maybe I should seek advice from someone better/nicer/smarter/saner than I.
In the past, my friends and family have been more than a little bewildered by some of the guys I’ve dated and looking back with the benefit of hindsight which gives wonderful vision, I can see that I was seriously selling myself short. I didn’t even him anymore and had lost respect for him.
The intensity was fading and the memories of the repeated let downs and hurts were prominent in my mind.