Stbxh and I don't have any issues, we're in 100% agreement with wanting a divorce and in complete agreement with a settlement.My advice; let him finish up that part of his life before you get involved.David Carter A blood stained cross, an empty tomb For by His love He met my doom.
In an even more conservative perspective, many would say that even after the divorce, remarriage may not be a legitimate option. I personally think that anyone who is currently legally married and yet is "dating" while awaiting divorce proceedings, is undermining whatever is left of their marriage and showing no regard for the possibility of a future reconciliation.
Because mental health professionals consider divorce one of life's most stressful events, dating a man who’s in the midst of divorcing can be extremely challenging.
During a divorce, a man must face a host of issues: dealing with his ex, taking care of any children, court appearances, the costs of divorce, not to mention his own grieving process.
It takes time to get over a divorce, much less getting through one. I had been told he'd be divorced for over a year, when in fact he had just been separated a couple weeks. If I knew then what I know now, I would have told him to go away and call me in a year.
Lot's of things to work through that you don't want or need to be a part of. When I was going through my divorce my counselor said to wait to date a minimum for 6 months post divorce.